Love addiction can be defined as persisting in a relationship despite the pain and hurt the relationship produces.  Obsessive love hurts.  It hurts you and it hurts your relationship.  If your relationship hurts but you can't seem to let go, you need to call Dr. Belton for a free 15 minute consultation.  She will help you reduce your craving to contact your ex, finally releasing you from the chains of attachment to a person that is not good for you.  They say the definition of insanity is "doing the same things over and over and expecting a different result".  Stop the insanity!  You can resolve your feelings about a relationship that is too painful and begin to move on to a healthier life.